Relationship and live in couple counselling
A relationship is a beautiful thing. The highs in a relationship can give you more than any material thing in the world. The happiness it gives you is greater than any material good can ever give you. However, preserving that happiness can sometimes be a tough job. There are so many factors which can hurt or harm or temporarily hamper a beautiful relationship.
Love, care, concern, bonding, emotional attachment are a few factors amongst the many which we seek from and give into a relationship. Sometimes you are too tired to hold on, and too much in love to let go. At that time a marriage and relationship counselor can hold your hand and help you get through the tough times.
Live in couple counseling
There is a growing trend in our urban way of life which is increasingly akin to the western world. An increasing number of young people are going in for a Live – In relationship. Their problems are quite typical and new for our society. They find it difficult to go to their parents who may not understand their problems. A trained psychologist can however, work through the maze of their problems and help them overcome it.
Happiness in emotions gives us strength and helps us fight against our problems. Just like happy emotions give you strength, unhappy emotions drain out your energy and you are unable to analyze situations properly and find solutions of these problems. When the going gets tough in a relationship you need to forget all the reasons why it won't work and believe in the one reason why it will.
Do not be a defeatist. Remember people who are meant to be together always find a way, they may take a few detours, but they are never lost.
How can counselling help
Consultative Psychological Counselling involves breaking our roadblocks and problems in a continuous and systemic manner. We sometimes do not see the light at the end of the tunnel as we are too intensely engrossed in our own problems. A trained professional can analyze situations and work with us to solve problems through a path which we cannot chalk out ourselves.
When or at what stage should marriage/relationship counseling be initiated? If I am having problems in my marriage/relationship where do I stand ? Can my problems be solved ? I do not see a solution ? Where am I ?